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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your marriage is ONLY one part of your life. You need to do some serious work on yourself. It is the only way through. You need a rich, full life that doesn't involve him. He is not holding you back from this - you are. People in marriages adjust to all kinds of things - spouses being gone, spouses overseas for long periods in the military, spouses who become disabled. Work on yourself[/quote] OP, having BTDT, I agree this is where your focus should be. You need to grieve, and you need to understand yourself and why it has taken you so long to come to terms with the reality of the situation, why you picked the person you did, etc. I suspect there are echoes of the past that are keeping you stuck. If you leave w/o doing the work you will be just as unhappy I suspect. You owe it to yourself and to your kids to do this work and to make decisions from a different place. [/quote]
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