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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP back with an update.

YOU GUYS. I dug up his financial stuff (we’ve always kept it separate on his insistence) and he makes TWICE what I thought he did.

WHERE IS ALL HIS MONEY GOING???

I’m floored. I thought this was just a case of mismanagement but now it’s clear he spending his money on something or someone, and it’s not his family. [/quote]

-day trading
-affair
-app-based treats that are not tangible

I sort of love this development. Its great for you! Twice the child support and a documented, ongoing instance of financial deception.
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You forgot:

- 401k
- 529s for both kids
- IRA

I don’t know what’s going on, but I hope for the best for OP and her family.  
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When you contribute to 401k, it comes out of your paycheck off the top so that wouldnt explain his paycheck being twice what he claims. 529, IRA has some kind of explanation in the withdrawl column. Either way, it doesnt explain it. Im curious who does taxes in the family.  [/quote]

OP didn’t say that she has his paycheck or tax return.  She said that she left the house and dug up some financial information.

If he is taking money out for savings and maybe paying for life and disability insurance policies, it would explain why only half of what he gets paid is available for regular expenses.

Hopefully this is it.  That means that they can use some of his money to pay for household help.  I’m pretty sure that most kids would prefer to take out college loans over living in a household where parents are constantly fighting and having screaming matches about chores.  [/quote]

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