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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Even if you’re a high earning single guy in your 30’s you still have to meet women’s looks requirements. I’m short (5’4) and high earning, and get practically no matches from anyone who I find remotely attractive on dating apps. I’ve tried experimenting with changing my height and setting it to 5’10 and the results are very different, so I know it’s height that kills me. I’m thinking about going abroad to find a wife or otherwise stay single. So women here who complain they can’t find a guy with a decent job are still going to reject lots of successful men due to other factors. They want the whole package: high earning, good looking, tall, charismatic.[/quote]

I do feel sorry for you. But do you receive a response from women who are themselves in 5'2-5'4 range? Or you yourself prefer women who are taller than you? My grandfather was 5'4 and grandmother 5'8. He always wanted to marry a tall woman because he didn't want his future sons suffer. He ended up having three tall daughters with my grandmother :0) But his  male grand kids are indeed all tall (men 6'3 and taller, taking my grand mother's stature). It was after the WW2 and grandma didn't have a choice of tall guys to go around, but she ended up in a happy marriage.

I am 5'8 and generally prefer to date 5'8 and taller guys, just so I could wear hills and not be mounting over him. But I did date a 5'7 guy once, he had a great personality and I regret leaving him. I think you'll do fine if you specifically are not looking only for taller women.

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I don’t care about height when choosing a female partner, there are pros and cons for me to date taller/shorter women. I feel like I stick out less in public with a woman my height or shorter, but I would have taller offspring with a woman taller than me. I do find it a bit F’ed up that people will justify discriminating against a partner on height based on not wanting their kids to be discriminated against, it becomes an endless cycle. Imagine someone said they didn’t want to have kids with a black person because their mixed black offspring would face discrimination. I’ve dated women 3-4 inches taller and didn’t feel less attracted to them. It’s generally women who care more about height, men don’t seem to have a problem being attracted to taller women. I would say as long as she’s 5’8 or shorter I would be just fine, if she’s 5’10+ that might get a bit too weird for me but I would still be attracted to her.[/quote]

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