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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ladies, you may think that these women are very smart that they managed to snag the good guys early in life, but I can assure you that [b]it is the guys who are doing the chasing.   These good guys -
-  think that these women are exceptional and they must snag them fast,   
- they don't hesitate to put a ring on it ASAP[/b]
- reach their potential as good husband/good father/good earner mainly because they have the backing of the smart girls.

Remember that men can have it all - a fulfilling career, good money, great married life and happy/healthy/high achieving kids.  These good guys want the perfect woman who can help them to become successful in professional and personal life.

So it is not the smart girls who snag the good guys early in life, but it is the good guys who don't let the smart girls walk away from them.  And when these guys meet these girls they do not wait. They recognize what an asset the right wife is. They also want the right mother for their future children.  The marriage-shy, committment-phobic man marries quickly and becomes the perfect man, once he finds the perfect woman.

Don't underestimate men.  They will chase down and marry the right woman.[/quote]

I think this is true. My now husband and I were dating in grad school. We were in love and I was very happy with our dating relationship.  He’s the one who proposed and wanted to get married at a certain point.

Now, years later, he has told me that he started to get worried that if he waited too long, I might find someone else I liked better, so he thought, whoa, maybe I should “lock her down”! We laugh about this now because I was extremely loyal to him, even in difficult circumstances, so it is funny to me that he was worried about that. We’ve had a great long term marriage with great kids- we both knew that we were the right ones for each other. 
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Agree.  It’s why my husband who swore he’d wait until 30 if he ever got married at all…put a ring on it 1.5 years after meeting me when he was 24.5.  He married about 6-7 years before his friends.  I was quickly absorbed into the bro group as a trusted member and advisor to the friends.  They always wanted my approval on girlfriends.

He also would have waited until he was older but didn’t want to lose me.  And we use the “lock it down” quote all the time back then.  Lol

The good ones on both sides go fast.[/quote]

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