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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So DS 30's has finally gone into therapy to work on himself, but now he is basically blaming me and my marriage problem/fighting, my religion that I forced on him, my homeschooling, my house rules, etc. All these things caused his mental problems and unhappiness according to his therapist. I have apologized if I contributed but there is not much to be done now. He wrote me a letter about it. It's depressing have all this blame hurled at me, I can't change the past and I wasn't a perfect parent - but we did our best and I thought he had a fairly happy childhood, much better than DH and I. I tried to give him the childhood I wanted as a kid. It's causing me to feel down. No one can hurt you like your kid.[/quote]

I suspect that therapists cause more problems than they solve.

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Typical response given by someone who is not capable of admitting their own fault or failures.[/quote]

Yup. Totally lacking introspection and empathy, too.[/quote]

+1 OP’s response is unbelievable. [/quote]

It’s clear to see why her kids might have issues from their childhood. [/quote]

GTFO. You know next to nothing about how OP raised her kids, because she’s told you next to nothing except that she homeschooled them. We know something about you, though: you’re definitely a misogynist and possibly an anti-religion bigot. [/quote]

I’m basing it on OP’s comments in this thread.

It’s clear from her comments that she has issues that were likely reflected in her parenting.

Go back and reread after you’re done with your tantrum. [/quote]

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