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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like an issue between you and your DH rather than specifically about the number of kids. Yes, it's irritating to have kids sometimes, but you have them, and DH needs to figure out how to accept that. We have two kids and one has special needs, and DH and I both are exhausted and wish he didn't have SN, but we can't change it. We love him, and we don't blame each other for the situation. You and DH need to figure out how to get to that point. I'm not saying it's easy or that we never fight or get mad or long for something that will never be, but it sounds like this is something where you are sensitive to his frustration about it and take it personally, and he blames the situation and his frustration on you. Therapy for you two will help.

Also - it might help if he can focus on what perhaps he can love about kid #2. Toddlers are hard, but hopefully he can come through this and focus on the kid. It isn't fair to the kid that DH acts like the toddler ruined his life by existing. This will be apparent to the kid.[/quote]

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