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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry, ladies but men have a lot easier of a time rebounding after divorce than you do. [/quote]

This is just not true. It is not 1965. It is far easier for women [/quote]

As a divorced man I have to admit this is true. Dating is mostly online these days. And for every 10 likes I get, women will get like 200. And there are a lot of good single men out there for decent divorced women. But once a guy is 50 or so, it’s really tough to find women, exception is only with very rare rich and fit guys.  It’s so much easier for women. [/quote]

As a 39 year old divorced woman, I disagree that there are a lot of good single men out there. Maybe single men in their 30s who haven't been married. But divorced men in their 40s? Not a lot AT ALL. [/quote]

Are not a lot of divorced men in their 40s but there are a lot of never married men in their 40s and never married men in their 30s. I haven’t looked at 50s. 44. I date  men in their 30s. There are plenty. There are almost no men who are divorced in their 40s but that’s not my target audience even though that is who I am. If you are looking for the exact same demographic as you then yeah you’re not gonna find a lot of men but if you’re willing to date men who’s never been married and who are younger, you’re fine.[/quote]

But don’t they still want marriage and kids? BTDT and not interested in more of either. That’s the hard part about 30s men.[/quote]

Some men do but some men don’t. Yes it can be tricky; I did date somebody who is 39 who changed his mind. But some men really don’t want children and those are the ones I’m after. [/quote]

Do you have your own kids? If so, how does that work? They don’t want their own kids but are ok with yours? Genuinely curious. [/quote]

Yes, I have kids. No, they don’t want their own kids. Yes, they are fine with me having kids.

This is not that uncommon anymore because many millennials are not getting married and they’re not having kids. I personally will never ever remarry. My kids are not introduced to the men I date. I did one man for a year we did not want kids. I’m dating a different one now. He does not want kids because he raised his younger sibling and he helps his other sibling with her kids several days a week and personally told me he never wants to do 0 to 5 in his own house because he’s done with little kids. It’s perfectly fine if I have my own and mine are older than five years old. But it doesn’t matter because they haven’t met and they likely will never meet because I’m not cohabitating and I’m not getting married ever again. If I’m still dating somebody the same person when my kids are older then maybe they will be introduced but I’m not disrupting my kids lives and I’m not dealing with someone else’s kid with custody schedules etc. because I’m just way too busy for that. [/quote]

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