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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some people don’t like to cook. They can do a delivery like Mighty Meals in the DMV. I would work on having healthy dinners first for a while and then see if they would like to learn some simple breakfasts or lunch ideas.

If she has a limited diet, she may have sensory issues. I would not try to make her try all new food AND learn to cook/ plan at the same time. That’s a lot of change. Also she has to want to change. Maybe her DH could just get some healthy delivery for himself. [/quote]

OP here. Mighty meals is great. Part of the problem with SIL is that she literally won't eat anything but 5-6 things.  Certain brand of frozen pizza, Tyson's frozen tenders, ballpark hotdogs, pepsi and captain crunch.  That's it.  [/quote]

Why is this your business? You love the fact that you are shaming her here. You're a horrible person.[/quote]

I disagree.  She clearly has mental health issues, involving food, which is frightening for OP's nieces/nephews and husbsnd.  She is simply concerned.  This isn't about just the SIL chosing to eat junk food.  What if your nieces and nephews exclusively ate pizza, hot dogs, and Pepsi?  Stop with the faux fat shaming outrage.  This sounds like a crisis[/quote]

NP. We have a DIL who will take the trouble to drive her her kids (also our grandkids) to McDonalds and BK and order from there instead of learning to use the InstantPot to make healthy meals. Do we say anything? No. DS chose to marry an unhealthy overweight woman so he made his bed. [/quote]

Your DS can use that instapot to cook healthy meals if it’s important to him.[/quote]

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