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[quote=Anonymous]Enmeshed is focusing on SIL rather than on BIL stepping up for his own health and the crisis his child is in, OP. Extended family could be a lifeline of emotional support for the child, and if she is invited to visit could provide key alternative models of healthy adult living and connection. In your posts you described a kid left to raise herself and who is being actively groomed into isolation and disordered eating by a mentally ill parent. Yet everyone focuses on her mother, not her? Not concrete actions to change her trajectory in life, even providing love, emotional support and a respite? I get it is convenient for everyone to parentify her and not break existing patterns, but, come on. [/quote]
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