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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I appreciate the helpful suggestions here. But please stop with the abusive language and insults. So far I've been called a b@#£&, a  troll, cruel, toxic, evil, a douche bag etc. I'm just so shocked at the amount of abuse people hurdle at anonymous posters online.  If you're going to attack me with abusive language please don't post.  If you have something critical to say, I am absolutely fine with that as long as it's done in a normal respectful way. Would you say these things to my face? [/quote]

I’ve called you toxic based on your posts. I see no kindness whatsoever in any of your posts, no love for your SIL, no love even for your brother. I see no caring, no love, no even basic attempt to understand mental illness or to see your brother’s role or to see your own role.

I have said as much to people I know who act with toxicity, and if you were my friend and talking in person the way you are here, I would say something.

You don’t like it because you are enmeshed, and frankly I think you have narcissistic tendencies. Sorting that out and being honest with yourself about your own relationship and your own motivations is going to be critical if you actually want to help your SIL and brother.

I do wish you luck, but I’m not going to sit here and pretend for the sake of your ego that you’ve been posting in a healthy way. [/quote]

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