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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't stay with a spouse who cheats just "for the kids." That's a terrible burden to put on them. [/quote]

How is that a burden on them? So I shouldn't have married either because I married for the kids. Yes, he is wonderful man, but we would have remained boyfriend/ girlfriend if I did not want kids

I guess it's different for those who marry primarily for romantic love. I love my DH very much. But I did not marry him because of that. I married him because I thought marriage was the best institution under which we could raise children. So staying for those children can still make sense if he cheats.[/quote]

Why do you keep giving advice when your spouse hasn't even cheated? It's all very theoretical for you. I don't think you understand that cheaters cheat the same way an alcoholic drinks too much. They justify it over and over. It's not a one time thing usually. Are you from another country where divorce isn't allowed or is really frowned upon? In the US it's not as big of a stigma. In fact it would be weird to know about your spouse having sex with someone else and you still staying in the marriage.[/quote][/quote]

Are you from a country where not divorcing a spouse who cheated  is a stigma? Now that's weird.[/quote]
In America, women who don’t divorce their cheating spouse absolutely face stigma. [/quote]

This is true but women who leave face a stigma too, if they have kids. [/quote]

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