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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]""not positioning your life better" Is this DCUM-speak for, "not marrying a man who earns a lot of money"? Because if that is not what it means, I don't know what else it means. " [b]Means being financially secure before I procreated.[/b] In my case, it was through money I earned and saved, not my DH's or my family's money. [/quote] So no one should procreate until s/he has enough funds to SAH with her baby for a year or two, regardless of her DH's income (and certainly if the family cannot live on the DH's income), just in case later she decides she'd like to do that? And anything less is "not positioning your life" well? Is that what you are saying?[/quote] No, I think she's saying that you don't have much of a right to blame your DH for not being able to fulfill your SAH dreams, if you didn't plan and save for it.[/quote]
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