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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The posters who are arguing consenting adult women in their 20s are being "groomed" by older men are way off base, and frankly sexist.

Women in their 20s are adults with brains and agency to date whoever they please. I am a guy, and in my 20s dated a divorced woman in her late 30s. I was an attractive, but poor, student. She was divorced, had way more money than me at the time, and I was a rebound guy she could have fun with. Of course, she did not "groom" me. We just had a lot of good sex and then moved on.

Nobody judged me or her for this. In fact her girlfriends cheered her on because I represented her moving past her ex-husband.  I do not understand why, when the genders are reversed, that people get so judgmental about what two consenting adults do.[/quote]

I would have judged you if you had been in my friend circle. Maybe your friends did, but they didn’t waste their breath trying to talk you out of it.

And her friends probably talked mad shit behind her back. [/quote]

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