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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I dunno. Maybe we are odd but ive texted dh to theow in a load of laundry and he'd put it in. Or he would text me to do whatver because it needs to be done. We long ago decided bot to read tone into texts and emails. Its just exchange of info. If someone is annoyed they will assume the text is mean when its not. You two need to have a calm conversation about household and childcare responsibilities and what you want both your lives to look like in the short and long term. It happens that you have non traditional role breakdown but since both of you work, you are both tired and need to split the house stuff somewhat fairly. But it doesn't mean the person who works less at a full time job does a ton more. we discussed what to outsource, what to let go and how to dela with the rest based on who is better/less annoyed by the task. So i cook and he does laundry and we both grocery shop and take care of two kids. My job is more flexible so im on tap for appointments and drop off. He is a better planner so he manages the calendar and signs up for activities when HE can do the transport and allocates time for it.  [/quote]

Yeah, I don’t understand this totally either. Asking each other if we can do something is fine. Fine to say no if we can’t. We are both all hands on deck, let’s get this done efficiently types though. I suppose if you have more ego it would be tricky.

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