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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP

Here’s a fresh example from tonight. I need to work late.

I texted him and asked if after the toddler goes to bed / or before, he can throw a load of laundry in the wash and then dryer. I said we would then fold it together when I come home.

He said he can’t because he’s arranging the groceries delivered today so he does not want to do two tasks.

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You are an absolute nutcase. If my DH micromanaged me by text like this I would tell him to F** right off.[/quote]

OP: The baby needs laundry. What would you do? I can do it when I get home at 830. [/quote]

How about this: don’t do the baby’s laundry.  Have it one hundred percent separated from your laundry as a couple (and you will split those tasks).  Baby doesn’t have clean clothes for daycare one morning?  Oops, husband will have to send the baby in pajamas and make a note to himself that he needs to do laundry that day.

You can’t keep doing these tasks and yet also expect him to learn from the mistake of not having clean baby laundry.[/quote]

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