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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: his text last night, “I think we should give this another chance…”

Me (tonight): "I'm feeling confused about what you actually want..."

Him: (a few minutes later): "You've been helping me figure it out...the last few months have been so beautiful!"

What does this even mean- is he being purposefully vague? [/quote]

seriously OP?  As a guy let me translate - he is trying to be suave about it, but he's essentially telling you that he wants to continue to sleep with you.  nothing more.[/quote]

OP: thank you. You're right. I wrote back and said I'd like to make a clean break. He wrote back and said he wanted to "keep building on what we have" [b]but I didn't respond (and don't plan to respond anymore)[/b].[/quote]
Time to block his number, OP. This guy is a turnip. The smell will only get worse over time. 
Keep looking. You have good instincts. You will find that great guy. GL![/quote]

OP: I didn't respond to him saying he wanted to keep building and then deleted his number. He sent me an email saying he would like to go away together after Christmas (that was one of my issues). Do you think there's ANY way he's a sincere guy? Or am I being taken advantage of?[/quote]

“I’d like to go away after Christmas” is literally nothing.

“Are you free the weekend of MLK day, I want to book us at Salamander resort for a couple of days” might make me think he had taken anything you said to heart. [/quote]

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