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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you OP!! What a generous offer. If you have time, my question is this please: My mother recently passed away after a brief illness. I feel so incredibly sad and lost. Did she know how much I loved her? [/quote] Hello. I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my mother 12 years ago and I still miss her. I pulled some oracle cards for you. The first two are YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH and A NEW START IS COMING (the new moon). I feel like that sense of loss may be tied in with how close you were to your mother. You need to know that you are strong enough to weather this storm. With the new moon card, I feel that by the next new moon, you will feel more settled in this new life. Because that is really what is happening. The loss of your mom has forced unexpected change in your life and right now, it's almost like shock. I think you will feel more grounded in a month or so. That said, grieving is a process and a roller coaster, so for you to feel fully settled in this new life will definitely take longer. I pulled three more oracle cards from a different deck and got REFLECTION, INNOCENCE, and UNION. You need to make sure that you reflect back on the happy times that you spent with your mom and by doing that, you keep her alive. She is always with you and will always be with you. I pulled the last two cards from another deck and got COMMUNITY and SACRED SPACE. I feel like your community of friends and family are going to be a bit support for you right now. Know you don't have to go through this alone. It may help to find a group of other people going through a similar situation. It can feel like you are all alone in your grief but it can be extremely comforting when you have the support of other people who are in the same place. You can all help each other. As for the SACRED SPACE card, I was hoping this would show up. Find a space in your house and create a small alter of sorts. Put photos of your mom, objects that remind you of her, etc. Use that space to talk to her. Write her letters letting her know how you feel and place them there. Whenever you are down go there and be with her. I promise you that she knows how much you love her. I send you big, big, virtual hugs. [/quote] Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this. My father and I are very much grieving, and this is so incredibly hard. Really appreciate your time and energy. [/quote]
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