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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^^^^ for the PP above, you keep arguing for men in sexless marriages to keep the wife's feelings as his primary concern but men who are sexually cut off really don't feel that need to protect and honor their wives. Make sense?

And if you men and women in true sexless marriages describe being "betrayed" there isn't the sense of anger you imagine. The marriage is long over by that point[/quote]

This thread was “cheating men”, not “cheating men in sexless marriages”.  A huge number of cheating men have regular weekly sex with their wives.[/quote]

Sorry, but No. The overwhelming majority of married men who cheat do NOT “have regular weekly sex with their wives”. Men who are sexually satisfied at home are not motivated to do all the ridiculous work necessary for a married man to cheat.

By far most men who cheat are in sexless marriages. They are motivated and will do whatever it takes. This isn’t really cheating at all, it is the practical and accepted way to save a sexless marriage. [/quote]

[b]I would guess the majority of cheating men are in between - not completely sexless but not regular weekly sex either. Perhaps something like 6-12 times a year. [/b]I am a woman and I don't consider this frequency to be acceptable if both spouses are under 50 without major health issues.[/quote]

This exactly describes me and two of my friends who I know have cheated. It would almost be easier to be sexless since I wouldn't worry about exposing my wife to a disease when we have sex between 2-10x a year. Plus, if you are sexless, it's easy to see that you are biding time till the kids leave. Having sex on rare occasions gives you reason to stay married on the glimmer of hope that sex might one day come back (or I lose my libido as I age and don't care anymore).

I am sure there are men who have great sex at home and still cheat but it's not the norm. Of course, celebrities like Tiger may be the exception because they have women literally throwing themselves at them, that temptation plus travel can be hard to resist.[/quote]

All those women he threw away his family for were all loser town bicycles.

It certainly demonstrated he had some mental problems for sure. I think his dad was the same way, but now he has health problems. Karma certainly came back around in this situation. A cheaters end is usually not good.[/quote]

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