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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I truly don't get the hate directed at OP. This forum is filled with women with high-earning husbands who wouldn't have it any other way. So many are in an arrangement where they either have flexible jobs, work part time, or don't work at all. And the funny thing is, they all parrot the same line: "I'm doing what's best for my family, I love spending time with my kids, I am thankful to have a high-earning DH." But OP comes along and complains that she doesn't have the DCUM prized UMC lifestyle of a coasting job with a hard working DH, suddenly she is slammed, by women who have these things no less! It's kinda funny.[/quote]

There is a difference between appreciating what you have and blaming and hating your husband because he has chosen something different than what you now want. Hard to believe you don't see the difference.[/quote]

My point is that the "traditional alpha male" narrative is popular and sought after in this forum. Why so much hate for someone who wants that for herself as well? [/quote]

That isn't the issue causing the piling on.  The issue is that OP is miserable and stressed, and hates her DH because he is not miserable and stressed.  Instead of wanting to make herself less miserable and stressed, she wants HIM to become miserable and stressed too so they can be equally unhappy while raking in more dough.

It's disgusting.[/quote]

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