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[quote=Anonymous]2 year olds are some of the hardest times in a marriage. There just isn’t enough time, unless you have the luxury to have one person home with kid full time and even then it’s rough as both people need a break each day. I hope you have already brainstormed ideas like getting bi-weekly housecleaning, ect…to make it easier. 
Try this for 2 years only, don’t have another kid and separate by age 4 if still miserable.

OP: If you can afford to make him a house husband and it allows YOU to make to millions ….you may be much happier. 
Bonus, your husband will likely relax, start exercising, and eat better if he say has two hours to go exercising/ peaceful grocery shopping/make a meal while daughter is in pre-school a few hours a week, and that can easily start at age 2-1/2 to 3.
You have STEM PHD for a Dad. If you have a smart daughter, he’s a good Dad, and a million bonus points if he is a half-way good teacher…..Do you know how much money you save in him tutoring your own kids? Plus, he’s right there when they need it. Your kids have a huge advantage if you can allow yourself to be happy being the main bread-winner. Why not YOU making the millions? 
For extra cash, in upper level STEM subjects, he could work part time for $120-200/hour tutoring in this area. 
Get therapy those two years as well. If it still doesn’t work out, the individual and couples therapy would be a good investment in a peaceful co-parenting situation.

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