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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the parents at low performing schools just cared more, those schools would improve. How about encouraging that? Instead, this just sounds like another rehash of "white man's burden". Seriously, woke people, this has been done, and that’s where this road will lead you.[/quote]
That's a bit harsh. I personally think that a lot of parents actually don't really know what to do. I think a lot of parents think that education is the schools "job", while their "job" is to feed and cloth their kids. It is the idea of education as a service provided by the state and not a lifelong process that has its own value. For kids that do well in school, education does not end when they leave school, parents are involved in homework and in providing added enrichment. My biggest problem is that somehow, parents that care about their kids education are also supposed to be guilted as "dream hoarders" for providing enrichment. Justice will not be served by making all kids ignorant, but more work really needs to be done to show parents in low performing schools how to model behaviors for success, like limiting screen time, promoting reading outside of what is assigned at school, etc.

I think everyone understands that kids that excel in sports or dance put in the work on their own time outside of practice, however somehow this same notion does not carry over to school and education for some reason.[/quote]

This seems to be a great example of prime DCUM.  I have no idea of PPs race or SES, but she sure sounds a lot like a lot of well meaning white liberals I know.  The attitude seems to be "I'm a white person who doesn't actually know any Black people and hasn't set foot in a DCPS outside of upper NW, but I'm going to potificate about the values of people that I actually know NOTHING about, and I think that my ignorance should be listened to because of my privilege."

"more work really needs to be done to show parents in low performing schools how to model behaviors for success". FFS -- really?  That's your take?  It's nothing to do with parents working multiple jobs, kids living in insecure places, kids witnessing trauma, food insecurity, systemic racism or the carceral state. Parents just need to "limit screen time."  Got it.

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PP here. Despite your pre-judgment of me I’m actually Black and grew up getting my food from the food bank. I really do wish that my road could have been a lot easier and a big part of that would have been what my parents could have done to help me.  But like many kids in my neighborhood, I grew up relatively unsupervised. What I have learned through my life journey is that to actually make it out of a less than ideal situation requires hard, sustained and dedicated effort. I liken it to rockets reaching orbit, to reach that escape velocity requires tremendous amounts of energy. It’s really hard to do unless you have booster rockets. The amount of energy and dedication required can be overwhelming at times, particularly if you are trying to do it alone. The reason immigrants can do it is because the ones I know look at their lives as inter-generational. A parent sacrificing literally every to provide that boost for their kids to make it into orbit. The trick is that once you are there, it’s not so hard to move around.  I consider myself lucky. Very few people go from where I started to where I have ended up. I am not leaving that same chance to my kids and I am also personally adopting an inter-generational view of sacrificing everything for them. If people don’t want to hear truth that Black parents are not helping their kids enough, then I don’t know what to tell you that can help you to understand or believe to know what it takes to be successful. Everyone will listen to Kobe Bryant or whoever talk about their single minded dedication to achieve their goal and nod their heads. But seldom do people consider that approach and apply it learning. So believe what you want, but I can personally tell you that there is no easy way. It’s all hard work. [/quote]

Amazing perspective. [/quote]

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