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Reply to "Here's the thing I don't understand about husbands who don't help out"
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[quote=Anonymous]DH here. I do the dishes 99% of the time. I tell DW not to bother with dishes as I can do it along with something else in the kitchen and also because I actually bothered to read up on how to load a dishwasher. But I do it my way and do tell her when she arranges the dishes in a way that would mean they wont get cleaned completely. I consider dishes as my responsibility and hence my perview. DW cooks 1 or 2 times a week. It is going to be her style and I would not comment on it at all except positively. Long after dinner, I might say one it was too salty and if she could reduce it a little next time. So to me, the person who ends up with the responsibility gets to define how it is done. You can have a discussion upfront on why it might be better to do a certain way or even change the responsibility if you do not like how it is done. [/quote]
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