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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My brother cheated and married the other woman. My former SIL has cut off all relationships with anyone who agrees to meet with, speak to etc my brother’s wife. I really miss my former SIL but my brother’s wife comes to Tgiving, Xmas etc. and I can’t just not see her. I can’t begin to fathom the pain my brother caused her but she goes out of her way to prevent him and his wife from spending any extra time with their child. She hires babysitters for work trips, puts him in aftercare etc even when my brother would like to have the child with him. She has taken out a restraining order against my brother’s wife preventing her from going on the property - so child handoffs are on the street if my brother can’t do them. I’m angry at my brother and SIl’s behavior and how they went about things, but I keep thinking how much nicer it would be for the child (who now has younger siblings) to have MORE people showing him love and support, not fewer. People aren’t all good or all bad - my SIl made a moral decision I wouldn’t make or emulate, but she loves her stepchild deeply. Also, Op, it’s another family member but no one can (or should) replace mom. [/quote]- You only have your brother to blame. A woman that co-cheats isn't one I'd want around my kids. So the home wrecker was trying to go on your ex sil's property?? Ok well yes of course she had to take out a order, probably after asking many times to STOP. Not all kids wants steps or half siblings, nor consider them siblings especially in these situations! lol No she's not another family member. Simply the woman who broke up a family, and exes wife. [/quote]
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