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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Can I ask how is it that you were in this relationship for 4 years and just now feel guilty? What led to ending this relationship and this feeling of guilt? What if your wife doesn't want to have sex with you for a while because of cheating....how long will you be patient and not cheat again?[/quote]

NP here, also broke off a shorter affair after getting caught.  The PP you asked is far more reflective than I am.  I take responsibility, but I also have some resentment that I tried oh, maybe 30 conversations with my wife about doing something to get our sex life up and running and all were dismissed or she tried then settled back into once a month or so.  I was so lonely.

Still, the affair killed any chance of us ever reconnecting.  She doesn't want to divorce, not yet, but it's been six months of no intimacy and I am dying inside.  How long can I wait?  Tomorrow for sure, next week probably, but at some point marriage isn't a misery contract.  She is SAH so perhaps until she gets a job and is financially stable?  I feel horrible for the fall out, she deserves better and so do I.  
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I think you've posted on here before and I remember you.  I think you got creamed last time you posted almost exactly the same thing.

You may want to do some self reflection like the other poster.  Honestly, I have no sympathy for you because you blame your wife for your cheating.  People can divorce or go to sex therapist instead of cheating.  You chose to cheat and you have no remorse whatsoever.  Your wife will be affected for a very long time and you are on here complaining.  How will you recompense your wife for your general shittyness and why do you deserve better?  You will be out in the world again with that a-hole attitude and at least do others a favor and do not get married ever again.  You got similar response  to mine last time and you still come back with same comments.    [/quote]

Not sure what you mean, if we divorce I will give my wife whatever she is financially entitled to.  Not here to make her future miserable, I care about her.

And not to worry, I will never, ever get married again.  Thanks for your concern.  [/quote]

Next time you decide to post on here, don't blame your wife for your cheating.  She didn't make you cheat, you did that all by yourself.  You don't want to make her future miserable but you are with blaming her for cheating.   You are miserable because you don't have empathy for your wife and are only concerned about yourself.[/quote]

+1, np [/quote]

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