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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]My AP loves her H and I love my W. Been cheating going on 2 years and we have it down. On some level I greatly dislike that she has such callous disregard for the situation but I don't take it out on her anymore. I'm a much happier man for once again having a good sex life. She has every reason to be suspicious, knowing I don't, or didn't accept our sexless marriage and knowing that there has been a big change in me for the better recently while at the same time, I've stopped discussing sex with her.now [b]I'm convinced she doesn't want to know and accepts it.[/b][/quote]

I'm convinced you are a narcissistic pig.[/quote]

Agreed. So much entitlement with this guy.  Cheating is the only acceptable solution for him because it’s good for him.  If you’re a jerk, I guess you never have to worry about doing the right thing.  You know, why give women in your life any agency over their life path?  Aren’t women put on earth just to please him?  Just a super jerk.[/quote]She has "agency" over her life path.  She has chosen her life path with no regard for our marriage.  I'm not going to interfere any longer in her chosen path.  She isn't losing anything in this arrangement.  She doesn't want intimacy with me and I no longer bother her about it.  It's all good, really.  Who knows, maybe something will click in her head some day and the switch will be turned back on, the same as it got turned off and we will resume.  I'm not counting on it, but I never saw this coming either so I guess it could happen.  Meanwhile, I know you would wish a sexless life upon me that I would never wish on you.  Or a blown up marriage.  But I'll manage this how I see fit.  I hope it never happens to you.  Any of you.[/quote]

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