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So what you're saying is even though we are MARRIED and im a member of the family I have to accept that my husband is going to family dinners every other Friday that never include me as his wife I just have to accept this and not say a word to my husband? But if once I have children I may be invitdd because me popping out babies deems me good enough to be a member of the family. So all I'm good for in the eyes of my husband's family is being a baby making machine? So my value as a wife is if I pop out kids. What freaking year are we in 1950? I'm going to assume your post was sarcastic or you are a troll because no one in their right mind can possibly think this way

You don't agree that a husband's main family once married is his wife? You really think parents/siblings are still his main family and not his wife? That he should prioritize them over his wife? I didn't realize he made vows with his parents and siblings or that he was sharing his life and house with them or having children with them? My bad.  
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Yes, having children with my son makes you more important to the family vs. not, I don't really know why this needs to be explained.

I don't know what vows you shared.  You don't have any children.

Wives come and go.  Parents are permanent.  I mean you've only been married for two years and look at the airs you're putting on. [/quote]

Well I'm glad I live in the year 2020 and not the year 1950 where a women's worth is more than just having babies. What if she is child free by choice or she medically can't conceive? Would your DIL never be deemed good enough to be family in your eyes?[/quote]

Then let her marry someone else's son.

Without passing judgment on her value as a human being, I would prefer a childbearing DIL to a non-childbearing one, all things being equal.  Let's put it that way, if your MIL was childfree by choice, there would be no husband for you![/quote]

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