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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorce shaming on this thread is unbelievable.
Bet these people consider themselves progressive. Ha![/quote]

You should be ashamed of it. It is about the most profound personal failure the average person can have.[/quote]

The most profound personal failure the average person can have is not being true to themselves. That's personal failure. Staying in a marriage where you feel emotionally abused/drained/detached is a personal failure. Divorce is a failure of two people not communicating, but most certainly not a profound personal failure. [/quote]

No.

"Staying in a marriage where you feel emotionally abused/drained/detached is a personal failure."

Back up a bit. You did not marry them because they caused you to feel that way (or if you did, that is a different kind of personal failure). [i]That you allowed your relationship with your spouse to degenerate to the point where you feel emotionally abused/drained/detached[/i] is a personal failure.

"Divorce is a failure of two people not communicating, but most certainly not a profound personal failure."

LMAO you are making my point for my. [i]Failing to communicate with your spouse - to the point where you decide to divorce them instead of learning to communicate [/i]- most certainly IS a profound personal failure.
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I wonder what you're projecting?

Many of us tried to save our marriages, and it was not possible.  So yes, it's a huge failing to have a relationship fall apart ... but to have the strength to divorce is not a failure.  a failure would be to continue letting the marriage deteriorate until it explodes or you lose all will to live. [/quote]

Many of us tried to save our marriages, and it was not possible.  <-- which does not make it any less a personal failure

to have the strength to divorce is not a failure. <-- "doing what you want to do because it is the path of least resistance" is a "strength" now  :roll:  :roll:  :roll:

a failure would be to continue letting the marriage deteriorate until it explodes or you lose all will to live. <-- Yes, that would be a failure. But that does not make divorce any less of a failure. Success would be correcting the problems and fixing the marriage, not getting a divorce.[/quote]

Dude.  All I have so say is, there's something seriously wrong with you. What happened to you?[/quote]

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