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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would tear her a new asshole among the other parents. Immature, but too bad. I would make her so uncomfortable that she'd never want to show her face at school. I would even make sure her kids' teachers, principal, the school secretary know.

I wish you'd established expectations with her STBX about introducing girlfriends and boyfriends to the kids.

You sound nice, OP. I would be such an unrepentant bitch in your situation -- both to the AP and to the exDH. I would ensure my kids had no respect for her. (Yes, I know it's the exDH's "fault" he cheated, but I wouldn't want to get accused of parental alienation or whatever so I wouldn't badmouth the ex to young kids )[/quote]

This is textbook what you SHOULD NOT do.  Horrible advice!  You're putting your kids and hers on the front lines of a conflict that involves only you and your ex.  He's your ex... get on with your life and endeavor to keep your kids from hating their other parent and/or his new SO.  Any book you read on this will say the same.  Being petty and vindictive is the most natural, but worst thing you can do.  Plus, people will think you're nuts and out of your head when your EX's SO acts all nice and friendly and doesn't talk a bunch of shit to her kids and others.[/quote]

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