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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why exactly does anyone think he isn’t raping her at night - when he has every opportunity - and obviously has raging sexual (sick) attraction towards her?[/quote]
Anyone?[/quote]

I answered you. Because all boys are hormonal, all boys will probably try to get what they think is unnoticed gratification by wrestling or hugging if they aren’t stopped by parents who point out “it’s not unnoticed, you moron, stop”. But that is a far cry from raping a 10 year old. How do you not see this?! The parents need to speak up but the girl probably isn’t being raped, lord.[/quote]

Agree with this.  I have girl/boy twins and between 9 and 10 I definitely intercepted some wrestling.  Kids at that age don't know why they do things, only that "this is fun".  I can think of 2 or 3 times that I pulled them apart when they were lying against each other.  It was just horsing around but I was really, really, really quick to stop anything that mirrored something sexual even though at the time they may or may not have been getting any gratification from it.  If it looked bad, I ended it immediately.  Now at 13 they know exactly what is appropriate and what is not and would be horrified to be in such a compromising position with their sibling.  It would never occur to them to do it.  
I can see if OP's friend never policed the behavior when the boy was young that he would just keep on doing it.  Now whether he currently takes it further I don't know. I think at a minimum OP should have a heart-to-heart with her friend.  It would be 100% worth ending the friendship over this.  [/quote]
Thank God your daughter has a mother not afraid to tell her boy to get off of his sister. The daughter of OP’s friend isn’t so lucky.[/quote]

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