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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Deciding to be unfaithful is black and white. Deciding to be unfaithful does make you a bad person. [b]Deciding to be unfaithful does make you a bad mother. [/b]The only complication is you not owning your own choices/issues and dealing with them head on. It is easy to label you as a bad person. You cheated on your family. [/quote]

Yes, it does. When you decide to cheat on your husband, you are deciding to do something that cannot fail to affect your relationship with your husband, and this, in turn, cannot fail to have a negative effect on your children.

The best environment for raising children is a happy marriage. If you do something to harm your marriage, you are a bad parent.[/quote]

OMG what about the children? It's entirely possible to have an affair, play golf, or end age in any number of activities and still not cheat your children out of their time with you.  Again, it's an adult situation. Don't drag the children into it.  [/quote]

If you think your affair will not be discovered, you are deluding yourself so you can pursue your selfish desires.
If you think the discovery of your affair will not blow up your marriage, you are deluding yourself so you can pursue your selfish desires.
If you think blowing up your marriage won't hurt your kids, you are deluding yourself so you can pursue your selfish desires.
If you think your adult kids won't someday understand you cheated and despise you for it, you are deluding yourself so you can pursue your selfish desires.

There is no way to have an affair and avoid affecting your kids. [/quote]

This person gets it.  PP not so much![/quote]

The cheater dw here. I never compromised my time or affection to my kids. My dh was still getting his sex twice a week. Not a single thing went wrong. So, here it is: I cheated, had fun and it is over and will never be found out. [/quote]

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