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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, What does your wife think about telling the AP’s spouse?  Would she support you?  Would she be willing to confirm the affair?[/quote]

[b]In these instances, the affairs are NEVER over when the cheater says they are. [/b]There's a lot of "trickle truth" and lies of omission. This is why it's important to compare notes with the other spouse. Plus, it's the right thing to do -- the other spouse needs to make informed decisions about his/her future and it's not fair to keep him/her in the dark.[/quote]

This happened to my sister. 
She caught her husband cheating with a co-worker & although she wanted him to quit to lesson the temptation, they weren't financially stable enough for him to quit... so they continued to work together.

He claimed the affair was over... they simply switched their affairs to lunchtime & because his AP's husband didn't know, she was able to put the motels on credit cards & the affair continued.

OP, she's been with him for YEARS, that's a long term relationship... if you think it will be that easy for them to see each other on the daily & not still have feelings for each other / continue, you're sticking your head in the sand once again because you don't WANT to know.

You should hire a PI, because if you're not willing to find out if it's continuing, then what was the point of calling her out in the first place?

Oh, and insist she switch companies IMMEDIATELY. [/quote]

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