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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you people insane?

You want to control the fertility of another person. Think about this. And potentially a third person as well. You all need some damn hobbies. [/quote]

Creepy sociopaths.[/quote]

Although I’m not a sociopath, I get why this might make for an awkward brunch topic. I see the point about controlling the fertility of a third person more than I do about his fertility. I can’t physically force the man to have a vasectomy, he’d consent. [/quote]

Consent under false pretenses is not consent.   I’m pretty sure you aren’t going to tell him you want a vasectomy so that he won’t have kids with a subsequent partner. [/quote]

Do you think it changes the scenario if he’s fully aware I’m still one foot out the door? B/C at that point my reasoning why I want him to have one isn’t really manipulating him into having one, he’d be fully aware of the risks (if he thought them out)
I don’t think he wants to have more kids. I think a future DW will want kids and he’s a yes-man. [/quote]

Um - you are a sociopath.  Let him decide on his own if he wants a vasectomy without any undue influence under the false pretense of you staying with him.

What kind of person thinks this way? [/quote]

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