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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I do not know any dual family homes with flexible jobs. Most people do not have flexibility in their jobs. Most are unfulfilled at their jobs. Most do not have job security.[/b]  Most do not make tons of money.  Most people work because their paycheck is required at home.

If you have the luxury of outsourcing your chores, making your kids lives stress free, flexibility of schedule to not have caretakers do the parenting, being there for your children all the time, not being run ragged yourself - you are very blessed and you are also an anomaly as a SAH/WOH/WAH parent.  This scenario is not what is available to majority of parents in any capacity.  [/quote]

Really? I feel like almost everyone I know in the DC area has a flexible job unless they are big law and have a SAH spouse. I went into government (GS-14 fed attorney) and it’s very stable and flexible. DH is in IT consulting and a lot of that work is done remotely with flexible hours except client meetings. I feel like we are pretty typical for the area.

Obviously we know we are fortunate, but I wanted to provide a counter to the doomsday scenario presented where kids are left with strangers or ignored 24/7 by working parents, which is not standard of the working parents I know. Our kids do attend a high quality Montessori preschool, but I would not qualify that as caretakers doing “the parenting.” Even the SAHMs I’m friends with send their kids out for at least part time preschool. It’s honestly good for kids to get out a bit on their own.[/quote]

Sorry you wound really naive to the point of stupidity here.

Also do ya'll even crack 400k? I wouldn't consider you to be "high earners." Middle class at best in the DC area.[/quote]

I'm not PP but our HHI is way higher than that and we have very flexible jobs, as do all our friends.  No one works on weekends, everyone has dinner at home with their families, everyone participates in kids' school and sports events, etc.[/quote]

LOL! And pray tell - what are these unicorn jobs?[/quote]

Another poster here.  I also have a flexible job as does my husband.  We make close to 500k HHI.  Pretty much every woman I know who works has a flexible job.  You’re a fool if you’re staying home because you think the only option is a 50 hour a week, 10 hours of commuting type of job.  [/quote]

Why don’t you answer the question? What roles / companies are these jobs in, where you can make $250k+ for a 40-hour week, in an area affordable enough that you can live next to work? You claim they are everywhere, so surely naming a few roles & companies won’t out your anonymity.[/quote]

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