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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t go. It is one day. She will get over it if she is an adult and loves you. She is also entitled not to come to one of your life cycle events without it being the end of the world. Family doesn’t need to fake it for each other. Trying to make you go is weird and controlling. [/quote] Why does the "she will get over it if she's an adult and loves you" not apply to OP but apparently applies to the sister? Why can't OP get over the intermarriage if she is an adult and loves her sister?[/quote] OP doesn’t have to go to the wedding - she’s entitled to live her truth. OP’s sister doesn’t have to wear a wig and come over for Pesach. Neither sibling is right or wrong - and trying to shame OP into going is pretty gross. [/quote] If OP’s truth involves discriminating against family on the basis of religion, race, sexual orientation, or anything else, then she should absolutely be shamed. [/quote]
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