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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Live with your parents after you get your first job if you are in the same city. Save, save, save for 1-2 years until you can have a nest egg, a down payment for a house. My cousins did it and they were in a great financial position after 3 years. Yes, they paid their parents for groceries and utilities but not for rent. [/quote] This doesn't work for everyone. Some people have dysfunctional parents, and living with them is toxic. Aside from that, I think that there are some self-sufficiency lessons never learned. The few people I know who lived with their parents for a few years ended up only moving out when they were about to get married. They went from living with parents to living with a spouse. They lack a certain grit. They are insufferably naive. [b]I think that everyone should live on their own for a few years. [/b]Learning to budget (and save) with expenses and on a low salary is a tremendous learning experience. I think it always shapes character in such a way that the person appreciates what is truly want versus need. [/quote] Living on my own in a new city was the best thing I did to help myself grow as a person. Living at home would not have been worth saving money. [/quote] Of course, to every solution there is pros and cons. For some people living a few years with parents have such an impact financially that for the rest of their lives they are ahead -less debt, more savings, a house, college fund for kids, retirement etc. I recognoze that not many want or need this leg-up. [/quote]
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