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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for all the replies.  Really I wasn't complaining or looking for reasons why or ways to improve it.  I have done all of the things that the well meaning posters have replied to no avail.  The bottom line is that at this point I am just kind of over it.  No, I don't want to divorce over sex, we do have a good life overall.  That said, I just find it increasingly to care about my wife as a wife when the part of our relationship that makes it a marriage is pretty much gone.  Really all I was looking for was to see if anyone on here had been in my shoes and how they managed it without making the marriage worse.  [/quote]
You are kidding yourself if you believe that "staying faithful" in a sexless marriage is a working solution. No normal man just "gives up" on sex. No, you are not "over it". You will say Yes to the first mildly attractive woman who flirts with you, and it WILL happen, sooner than later. Meanwhile at home your "just dont care" attitude will devolve into increasing discontent and eventually toxic resentment. Go read Deadbedrooms on reddit, your story has been played out 20 million times with the same result.

Just get it over with right now: text her that you've decided to have an Open marriage, don't wait up for you because Friday night is fun night.  This is the only sustainable way to "save" your marriage.[/quote]

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