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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People are making this too complicated.

1) If a person is preoccupied with something, the are not looking to talk.  Stranger reading a book/paper/phone, leave them alone.

2) If someone says no, ignores you, or whatever, leave them alone.

3) Do not touch anyone you don't have permission to touch.  This goes doubly so for the private parts.

The above applies to men or women.

Note:  rule 1 mostly applies to strangers.  If you see someone you know, you can say hi.  [/quote]

2 & 3 are spot on. Not sure I’ve ever see strangers in public that are not preoccupied?  If you don’t want strangers to meet in public places, just say so. [/quote]

#1is also clear, and this seems to be the one where all you posters seem to be being the most obtuse. Is the person doing something else, like reading a book/paper/using a laptop/staring blankly into space? Leave them alone. Making continued or frequent eye contact with you, chatting and smiling? Yeah, then you can approach.

Simple rule - if you don’t get eye contact and at least a smile, just leave them to do what they’re doing. [/quote]

#1 is so not clear.  I love to read, write and draw in public -- coffee shop, bar, park, etc.  Sometimes, I want to focus without talking with random people, and I will say so, but I have met the most interesting people that way.  It is a great way to meet people outside the usual circle.  Sometime I just like feeling the energy of a place.  The difference is like watching a game/performance on TV versus watching a game/performance in person.[/quote]

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