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[quote=Anonymous]22:38: your friend's experience is all well and good but it's entirely possible that her ex was caring and took responsibility for his actions and helped her heal from the hurt her ex inflicted. Many men don't and it sounds like OP's STBXH is taking the low road and focusing on his own needs and wants above all else. That is not a recipe for forgiving an ex, nor befriending the OW. I will say this, my ex did not cheat on me but he was arrogant, selfish and verbally abusive to me and our kids. Are you going to say I should forgive that and work together with my ex on parenting? Forgiveness happens when the transgressor takes responsibility for their actions. What if they don't? What if they are self-righteous, defensive, manipulative, dishonest, etc etc? Forgiveness is not always possible. "Each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way." (Tolstoy)[/quote]
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