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[quote=Anonymous]OP here again.  17:11, you have no idea how hard it was to not report him.  At one point I had the phone in my hand and had dialed his manager, and was ready to hit send.  I was shaking.  The only reason I didn't is because my sister, a lawyer, talked me off the edge with cold hard facts.  If he lost his job, the kids would suffer, and there is a damn good chance I'd have to pay him spousal support, or at the very least child support.

I did get in our separation agreement that if he loses his job as a result of the affair he will waive spousal support.

There is fair....  he should lose his job and not get shit from me.  But that hurts the kids, if daddy is unemployed, if daddy can't afford a safe place to live, or if daddy can't see them as much because of lack of money.

Everything, and I mean EVERYTHING I've done has been preceded by the question "what is best for the kids?"

It's a shit sandwich, but that's my penance for picking him as a spouse.  My gift to my kids is letting them have as stable a life as possible and the best relationship they are able to have with their father.   [/quote]

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