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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]17:18, I'm 30.[/quote]

Of course you are.

You've been in a relationship with this man for how long? 3 years? 4? Married for 2?

Have you been in other relationships, or is this your only experience?[/quote]

I had one other boyfriend in college.[/quote]

Wow.

One relationship in college. One relationship in your late 20s with a married man. Thinks she knows everything about the world. [/quote]
Hey now, not all women who have only had one relationship are this naive.  My DH is the only man I seriously dated, and I'm not this naive.  I am, however, very realistic, and know that OP's outlook on her marriage is in for some serious eye-opening.

OP - I have stated this before -- I think you may have some issues if you think that you can meet all his needs.  No person, man or woman, can meet another's needs, especially after kids come along.  As long as he knows this as well, your marriage might be fine.  No one here can say since we don't know your DH. Just make sure he knows that you can't and won't be able to do everything once kids come, or maybe even after 5 yrs of marriage.  Passion fades, the rose colored glasses come off eventually.[/quote]

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