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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]  Sorry guys, you just don't get her motor running anymore, hell, some of you never did. Fuck house work, kids and all that nonsense,  excuses upon excuses.

I'm a DW, and my husband,  bless his heart, physically doesn't  turn me on.  Come to think of it, I don't think he finds the sight of me naked arousing either but that's marriage I guess.

No weight gain or sudden ugliness arose. Our attraction to each other was never that strong even in the beginning and naturally, the passage of time has made it decline.[/quote]

It would have hurt like hell, but if that's the reason for my low-sex marriage, I wish my wife would have told me up front that I didn't turn her on. I could have moved on then. [/quote] In my case, it wasn't something that was an issue in the beginning.  I was just happy to meet a good man and be in a stable  zero drama relationship. We moved in together,  got engaged and had a baby in very short order, not really a forethought. But now that the dust has settled, how do you break up your child's home because you're not sexually attracted to his father. Kinda silly, no?[/quote]
Pple here, actually thought about that and no, I would freely grant him an open marriage if he asked for it. I think he knows that on some level but he hasn't asked and I haven't offered. Our marriage operates on walking by the giant elephant in the room day in day out as if it isn't there.
Why not open the marriage?  Would you even be jealous if he had sex with another woman?[/quote][/quote]

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