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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]  Sorry guys, you just don't get her motor running anymore, hell, some of you never did. Fuck house work, kids and all that nonsense,  excuses upon excuses.

I'm a DW, and my husband,  bless his heart, physically doesn't  turn me on.  Come to think of it, I don't think he finds the sight of me naked arousing either but that's marriage I guess.

No weight gain or sudden ugliness arose. Our attraction to each other was never that strong even in the beginning and naturally, the passage of time has made it decline.[/quote]

It would have hurt like hell, but if that's the reason for my low-sex marriage, I wish my wife would have told me up front that I didn't turn her on. I could have moved on then. [/quote] In my case, it wasn't something that was an issue in the beginning.  I was just happy to meet a good man and be in a stable  zero drama relationship. We moved in together,  got engaged and had a baby in very short order, not really a forethought. But now that the dust has settled, how do you break up your child's home because you're not sexually attracted to his father. [b]Kinda silly, no?[/b][/quote]

That should be his choice.

[b]Do you think the lack of drama is a cause of the lack of sexual attraction? Is anxiety, uncertainty, etc. a source of sexual stimulation?[/b][/quote]

Yes, absolutely.  It's security that kills a woman's sex drive.  Lot's of studies on this.  I don't think women do this consciously.  It is what it is.  That is why a husband has to make sure his wife sees that he is still attractive to other women.[/quote]

Nah, it doesnt have to do with drama.  Women are just more turned on by new partners than men are.  Sorry, nothing can change that.  Women like fucking new people more than men.  It's biology. [/quote]

Men are just as turned on by new partners as women.  But they are also turned on by old partners.  That's the difference.  Over time, men want to fuck both their wives and other women.  Whereas women lose their desire to sleep with the old partner.  Obviously, exceptions apply.[/quote]

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