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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]  Sorry guys, you just don't get her motor running anymore, hell, some of you never did. Fuck house work, kids and all that nonsense,  excuses upon excuses.

I'm a DW, and my husband,  bless his heart, physically doesn't  turn me on.  Come to think of it, I don't think he finds the sight of me naked arousing either but that's marriage I guess.

No weight gain or sudden ugliness arose. Our attraction to each other was never that strong even in the beginning and naturally, the passage of time has made it decline.[/quote]

It would have hurt like hell, but if that's the reason for my low-sex marriage, I wish my wife would have told me up front that I didn't turn her on. I could have moved on then. [/quote] In my case, it wasn't something that was an issue in the beginning.  I was just happy to meet a good man and be in a stable  zero drama relationship. We moved in together,  got engaged and had a baby in very short order, not really a forethought. But now that the dust has settled, how do you break up your child's home because you're not sexually attracted to his father. [b]Kinda silly, no?[/b][/quote]

That should be his choice.

[b]Do you think the lack of drama is a cause of the lack of sexual attraction? Is anxiety, uncertainty, etc. a source of sexual stimulation?[/b][/quote]

Yes, absolutely.  It's security that kills a woman's sex drive.  Lot's of studies on this.  I don't think women do this consciously.  It is what it is.  That is why a husband has to make sure his wife sees that he is still attractive to other women.[/quote]

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