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[quote=Anonymous]For everyone saying that this is premature, it is not premature. The official story has been that FIL will work until he can't any more, but DH just told me that the reason why his mother has been so aggressive about initiating conversations with us recently is because FIL now wants to retire at 67. That is just a year away. FIL isn't being direct about that and has been putting his wife up to asking if they can move in with us.

DH says his mom freaked out at my answer and now both FIL and MIL want to meet with DH alone. They told him to tell me that he is going on a work trip but in reality, he is supposed to spend the day with them figuring out what to do. Considering that they asked him to lie to me, I have no doubt that they hope they can influence him when I am not there and get him to agree to some crazy level of support. DH refused to lie to me and came straight to tell me. If I was annoyed before, I am now officially hostile to any assistance going their way.

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