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I am aware the police need more training.
[b]I am also aware that they quite often get false reports, more often than not.[/b]I actually think we need to educate women about what "real" rape is, because these false reports actually make it hard for police to trust women. They are working against themselves.

You are never going to get anywhere positive with this issue if you continue to believe that a couple getting drunk together then having consensual sex is rape on the part of 1 partner.

You are too far to the "everything is rape" side of the argument for anybody to take you serious.

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False reports, more often than not? Oh boy.

Here is what "real" rape is -- sex without consent. The sooner everybody is clear about that, the better off everybody will be.[/quote]

We all know that.  Curious what you would call this situation:  consensual sex (with *consent,* your favorite buzz-word).  Next day, regret, embarrassment on the woman's part.  She decides to call their sex "rape," even though she *consented,* enthusiastically, the night before.  The police ask her if the sex was consensual.  "No," she says.  "I didn't *consent*."  They then ask him:  "Did she *consent* to having sex with you?"  He replies, "Yes, she certainly did."  Who is right here?  Who is lying?[/quote]

You are asking two separate questions.

Question 1: Is it possible to retroactively non-consent? Answer: No, it is not. 
Question 2: Who is the best authority on whether or not a person consented? Answer: That person.

[b]But, really, I'm baffled by people's fixation on this far-fetched set of circumstances. Person A regrets having had sex with Person B, and so therefore what Person A does is go to the police and turn this activity that Person A regrets having had into an official matter that leads to an inquiry into every intimate circumstance of Person A's past private life (including the activity that Person A regrets having had). How stupid you must think women are[/b].[/quote]

Me again, and I also agree with this.  Why the need for far-fetched circumstance?  Actual rapes happen so often, that it's bizzare to me to have so many posts about GRABBING ARMS?!  And I am saying this to "both sides."

Anyway, not that many women do false accusations because it throws them under the bus as well.  [/quote]

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