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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it impossible for you to discuss your agenda without insulting everyone else in the process?[/quote]

I have actually seen not seen OP insult people as much as people have insulted her....[/quote]
Not really, she's very defensive and anyone who disagrees with her and points out weaknesses in her position is either a fake Asian, or a silly white chick, or destined for life on the streets by 70. I tell you, people who grew up middle and upper class in Asia don't tend to have that much resentment built up.  None of the wealthy Nigerians, Bengalis or Chinese we know are like that. [/quote]

OP has severe money anxiety.  She also compensates for having been an outsider in this country by relying heavily on her achievements for self esteem and to denigrate the natives who she sees as all being born with silver spoons.  She has a lot of resentment and envy towards native-born Americans.

You would be like OP if you were in her shoes. [b] My DH's grandfather grew up wretchedly poor. [/b] He traumatized his whole family with his obsession with money.

So the cycle goes...[/quote]

Seems like when they grow up with little and accumulate wealth they become more anti family and have a me first attitude that makes them rude, obnoxious, selfish due to their constant greed of wanting more and more money. They fear the money will run out and they will be back to drinking from tin cans again. So I wonder how this plays out in the OP's morals as a lawyer? I don't think she must be a very good one and probably went into law not for a passion but for the money. Weird that she married a man who is financially unstable and broke though because she doesn't seem to love him. Idk what kind of marriage that is. [/quote]

Last point - unless you know the OP, da fuq are you both talking about?  Sounds like you both need therapy to heal from the cheapos in your own families.  The thread has freakin jumped the shark.  This doesn't have anything to do with the OP any more.[/quote]
NOPE just making a comparison to OP and her third world lifestyle to many migrants who are just like her. It's a common thing in the DMV area. [/quote]

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