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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you presumably know your daughter's physician, correct? I am trying hard to picture how a 16 year-old girl who is in ballet class 3 hours a day, plus school, has time to take her boyfriend with her to her gynecologist to not only get birth control pills, but to have STD testing. That story doesn't hang together for me. [/quote]

Don't forget the girl is a top scholar and a ballerina who is very popular at school and very savvy beyond her years. The boyfriend is being uplifted to a 4.0 and more maturity because of the daughter. They planned a joint trip to the gynecologist, discussed birth control, were joint tested for STDs and then split the bills 50-50.

The story doesn't hang together for me either.[/quote]

You honestly don't think that's possible? I know couples who definitely could've handled that at 16. There's no reason a 16 year old is necessarily incapable of handling things in an adult manner. Not every 16 year old will, of course, but then I know people who are adults based on their legal age but act less mature than many teenagers. At this point, age is just a number.[/quote]

I graduated valedictorian of my class, practiced the violin three hours a day and was having sex with my boyfriend (after we made a trip to Planned Parenthood together).  But he paid for all of it (wasn't much).  I was mature and responsible at 16.  I look back on my first sexual experience as being very sweet and loving.  I still see him at reunions and we are still friends.  [/quote]

Planned Parenthood I would believe. Not the OP's version, which has the DD and her boyfriend seeing the DD's OB/GYN for STD testing. Did the girl use insurance? The parent is the policyholder, right? And did the boy pay out of pocket? Why go there instead of to Planned Parenthood?

But then I even wonder about the OP's use of the word "Christ" in the context she used it; it sounds more like a man writing than a woman. Then there's the part about the dead father and the adoring stepfather, and the trusting mother who allows her daughter to have a separate entrance to the house and allows her to have her boyfriend in her study and room, then is surprised she's having sex with him.

I'm sorry, it all just sounds a bit trollish to me, or at least like the OP isn't getting the full story. [/quote]

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