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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think the OP did anything *morally* wrong, but it does seem like she made a strategic error by overplaying her hand.

Also 6-8 weeks of regular dating... [b]I completely understand why he was surprised to see her with another man and why he has trouble trusting her claimed intentions[/b].[/quote]

OP, if you are real and not yanking people's chains, #1 is going through a total ego collapse because he probably figured you were getting along well, he was doing the "right things", and could see a relationship developing.  If you really think he could be special, not just one guy along the way, DON'T CONTACT HIM NOW.  Wait a few months and then reach out.  His wound won't be as new and perhaps there can be a restart.  BUT HAVE SEX QUICKLY WITH HIM![/quote]

I don't think it's really about sex. Based on the OPs description, I think he wanted an LTR. It's not as simple as Man Angry Cuz Other Man Get Sex First Grrr.

OP, I would probably try one more time, maybe write your thoughts down and let him know that you understand his reaction and that you really do want to be with him (only) and just give him some space to mull things over.

Personally, if I liked you, and I felt you were being sincere, I'd probably be won over. But I really can't predict what he'll do.

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