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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP,

He thought it was serious after two months without sex? You've been seeing this other guy all along, and sleeping with him? I would NEVER trust a guy who did that to me. Never, ever. I would feel duped and rejected, and really on the spot as far as making love for the first time after hearing that. Also, how can you be sure he's the one before having slept together?

Interesting, so many responses![/quote]

Here is a woman who AGREES with the many male responses and it's refreshing. Every male here told you how it would feel and be interpreted, and every angry woman called those guys "losers" and "contr freaks," as well as other terms we've come to know and love.

Once again:  Telling a guy you're not sleeping with how special he is while, all along you've been sleeping with another guy will only be accepted by guys with no self-respect or self-esteem.

Despite how many more women make fun of my post and call guys losers, euphemisms and fairytale don't change facts. [/quote]
You're confusing the responses to the sexists posts with the actual responses to posts like yours. Have you even read the thread all the way through? You're not illustrating a point. You're repeating yourself in the hopes it will be believed.

No one said that a guy needs to stick around if a woman isn't what he wants in a LTR.

If you read the other thread about open marriages, you would find that the writing style and even timing of the OP's posts are nearly identical to this one. It's the same lack of any emotion other than "woe is me." Any normal person would get pissed if they were called the names used in both threads.

It is a fairytale. That's why people are calling it one. No point has been made. No lesson has been learned. [/quote]

Spoken by a woman who just likes to bash men.  You're just calling this a fairytale because you don't want to admit that maybe, just maybe, this kind of stuff happens all the time. Men do it. Women do it. And just because men seemingly do it more (and I'd argue that) does not make it right for women to do it in attempts to "catch up to the men."

I'm not being sexist and I have read this thread from page 1 through my post right here. Every male has said the same thing. Some have been assholes about it, but they've all said the same thing. Most of the women have also been assholes about it, simply by calling men losers and sexist and whatever.

Enough is enough.

OP, if you're real, learn from this. No man will ever feel "special" or feel like they're the one who you really want if you want things slow and make them wait all while banging other guys. No man.

I know enough guys have learned throughout the years that actions speak louder than words for women.  Use that same mentality back. [/quote]

You're believing it because it reinforces your beliefs. I don't believe it for several reasons, the first one being the fact that this general theme and identical writing style has been used with only minor changes to the story line. It's been written by the male and female perspective. Someone wants to invent stories to make a point. You're certainly welcome to believe it, but there are quite a few of us who call it bullshit.

Disagreeing with you is not abuse. It is not bashing. It is simply a disagreement. [/quote]

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