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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In a marriage, you aren't entitled to anything except fidelity. Which effectively means that, so long as the marriage lasts, the low drive spouse is empowered to compel chastity by the high drive spouse. [/quote] Hmm. There are hormonal and physical reasons why one partner might not have any desire. Also relationships that are fundamentally broken (e.g. abusive relationships) But I think if one spouse unilaterally decides that sex isn't important in the relationship, the other spouse is free to get their unimportant needs met elsewhere. And that the spouse for whom sex is unimportant has no right whatsoever to complain. The idea that *having* sex is unimportant but that *not having* sex is the only important thing in a long-term relationship is, frankly, ludicrous. You can't have it both ways. Fidelity is for spouses who have sex.[/quote]
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